So Bryan and I have been contemplating the last couple of days on whether or not to move back to Rancho. I REALLY want to move back but at the same time I feel like we are going to be outcast by the rest of his family for "abandoning" his parents at Paykel. I don't even know if I can for sure get my job back at Mercury or not. Bryan is thinking that if this does happen I would have to live with my mom for a couple of months by myself and he would live out here with his parents for a couple of months. I don't want to be a part from him and I don't know what to do. Our lease is up at the end of February so we either need to make a decision now or wait until next year at this time because we have to sign another year long lease. I really don't like the traffic and being with my in-laws everyday is a little hard on me as well. I would LOVE to work a job that is Monday through Friday so we can do the things that people plan on Saturdays!!! (i.e. Weddings) Don't get me wrong I love the weather out here and most days I love being able to be with my husband all day long but at the same time I don't like living in this CRAZY city away from my family. Ok, now all I am doing is rambling I suppose that I should go now. Please offer any suggestions you might have!!
Thanks,
Beckie
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OMG Beckie that's crazyness. - Katie
From a married mom who's been through the post-marriage-living-with-the-parents(even temporarily)-thing...I'd highly HIGHLY recommend that you and Brian stay together. Especially when it comes to each of you living with his/her own parents. MONTHS is WAY too long for such a young marriage. It can be very straining! Do what you have to do, but avoid this scenario at all costs. TRUST ME.
Just my two cents.
Oh, and I hate to tell you this, because I know you worked sooooo hard, but that diaper bag (which has become my carry-ALL) that you made me? Well...uhh...it didn't do so well in the dryer. In fact, it got massacred. And I keep looking at it, and I just don't understand what in the world happened inside that drier. I was really upset. You can thank my mom for throwing a partially-full bottle of formula into it. She ruined Amberly's favorite "Praying bunny", wich hold tons of sentimental value as well.
I almost got hit by a semi today...I am not having a very good 24 hours. I am going ot bed before my computer blows up or something. Not much else left to go wrong at this point!
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